Have you ever wondered why you are Taurus and your soulmate certainly is supposed to be a Capricorn, but you end up being attracted to a fiery Aries?
Well, don’t worry! This is a common question that my customers ask during my 5 years of experiencing astrology. In fact, we are complex individuals and there are lots of other factors that affect our relationships. And astrology isn’t the only parade!
So what are you waiting for, get on board Lalazodiac’s spaceship and go where no astrologer has dared to go to find out why the zodiac compatibility isn’t right for you.
Myth 1 – Nothing is perfect
There’s really no such as the “Best” or “Worst” thing when it comes to the compatibility of the zodiac. Instead, you can consider them as unique pairings with their own challenges and advantages.
Firstly, we talk about those zodiac couples that are the best match. These lovebirds often find themselves in sync, vibing on the same life wavelength. It’s like they’re tuned into the same radio frequency and speak the same love language. They come together smoothly when together sharing, offering shoulders to lean on, and holding their hands overcoming the going gets tough. But, you know, all this harmony could occasionally lead to a touch of routine boredom.
Now, let’s look at those zodiac pairs that might not seem compatible at first glance. There’s a hidden charm here, you see because opposites have a fascinating way of pulling each other in. Navigating through those bumps in the road can actually help them get to know each other better, embrace their differences, and find a unique balance in their relationship. On the flip side, these pairings can sometimes experience a bit more tension, disagreements, and continual challenges.
So, remember, no one is absolutely perfect in this world. Our imperfections help us find each other. Every relationship, every zodiac coupling, has its beautiful blend of highs and lows. Let’s celebrate that!
Myth 2 – Sun Sign doesn’t tell the full story when it comes to compatibility.
Sun signs help you define your purpose in life and reveal how you move in the world. It can be said that this is an important piece of the puzzle, however, but they don’t create the whole picture because compatibility between two zodiac signs is more complicated. Some other influenced factors, such as your Ascendant, Moon, Mars, etc… also play crucial roles.
So, if you want to dig deeper into this astrological wonderland, Synastry and composite charts can be a brilliant way to learn more about the astrological forces at play in your relationships.
Myth 3 – Compatibility Relationship is just a tool
Think of compatibility (Synastry and Composite) as a useful gadget in your relationship toolbox. But remember, it’s not the caboodle and whole kit!
Compatibility is like a magic lens that allows us to deeply understand our partners from feelings to perspectives. Can you imagine how soft and comforting life are if we all got at putting ourselves into each other’s shoes?
On the other hand, compatibility shows you your strengths and advantages in your relationship that you can nurture and grow them. It’s all about realizing what makes your bond special and making them even better.
Moreover, compatibility guides and alerts you of potential bumps in the road, as well as even explains why those obstacles get in the way of your happiness. From there, it helps you face, accept, and overcome challenges with more ease.
Myth 4 – Preoccupied with a single tree, you’ll miss the entire forest
Picture this: One puzzle piece doesn’t quite fit, that doesn’t mean the whole puzzle is a bust, right?
Similarly, if you find a mismatch in one aspect, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re incompatible in all ones.
Compatibility is like a colorful tapestry, woven with various threads such as friendship, love, business partnerships, in-the-bed, communication, intellectual stimulation, and shared activities, to name just a few.
Each area is a unique thread adding to the beauty of the whole. So you should remember that don’t let a hiccough in one area cloud the overall picture.
Myth 5 – Romanticism tends to Ruined Love
Taking a little trip down memory to the end of the 18th century in Europe, when romanticism flourished in the arts, music, and literature. This wave of passion and emotion can sometimes color boldly our perception of compatibility in relationships.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with soaking in all that romance, but it can sometimes lead us to pile sky-high expectations on our partners. We might start believing they should be able to meet all our needs, perfectly, all the time.
But hey, remember this – instead of hunting for the “perfect match”, why not spend some quality time developing ourselves? Take care of your tender heart instead of looking at other people’s shortcomings. Let’s try on being the best version of ourselves because a journey of self-discovery and self-growth lead to a healthier and happier relationship.
Myth 6 – Love, like you plant a tree, needs more materials to nurture
You should remember that astrology is fascinating and insightful, but it’s a tool that helps you guys understand each other better not the ultimate fix for the heartaches that love can sometimes bring us. If there’s a magical cure out there, it lies in nurturing those beautiful virtues that turn love into enduring and mature over time.
We talk about giving, truly relishing the joy of time spent with our loved ones, and the courage to share not just the happy moments but the sad ones too. Let’s remember the power of tolerance, honesty, trust, and forgiveness. Stars will guide us in the journey of love.
So, while the zodiac signs can give us some pointers, you also remember that the most powerful magic of love comes from our own hearts and actions. Cultivating these virtues make love the beautiful journey it’s meant to be!
Myth 7 – There are many other factors that affect your zodiac compatibility
Although exploring the world of zodiac compatibility is very fun and interesting, it’s important to remember that we’re complex beings with influences stretching far beyond our zodiac signs.
All kinds of relationships in our lives are significantly influenced by different factors like age, educational background, religious beliefs, nationality, nationality, education level, and cultural practices…
For example, two people who have spent a long time together often have a deep understanding and highly appreciate each other, no matter their zodiac signs.