Be honest, after you and your partner have spent an initial period full of joy and happiness in love, does your relationship start to show cracks?
There will be arguments over finances, values, goals, and even sensitive issues regarding sexual needs between the two of you. And as time goes on, do you both start to reveal each other’s differences, especially when living together and harmonizing with someone else is a challenge?
I believe the Best Astrology Love And Relationship books I introduce to you will provide helpful information through the lens of astrology. Reveal what each of you seeks in a relationship, identify the strengths that can be nurtured as well as the hidden challenges hindering your happiness which is applicable at every stage of a relationship, from dating and love to sex and marriage.
Additionally, we also recommend some great books on love and relationships that I have read during my study and research in astrology, including concepts on attachment theory, the 5 love languages, and more which help you have more comprehensive perspectives on your relationship.
Best Astrology Love And Relationship Book From Basic to Advance
1. Linda Goodman’s Love Signs: A New Approach to the Human Heart – Linda Goodman
If you are a newbie and seek an easy-to-read relationship astrology book, this one can be the best choice for you. “Linda Goodman’s Love Signs” is far more than a cross-reference of which is the best match for you and how to deal with your problematic relationships.
Moreover, this book offers a penetrating detail of compatibility that you should know before starting a relationship with your mate.
The love signs combination in her book reveals the realm of zodiac signs in love, especially she highlights the habits, obsession, sensual attraction, and attitudes of each zodiac sign.
Whether you’re embarking on a first date or seriously involved in the relationship, the guidance from this book can help you unlock your love “keywords” and a deep understanding of your connections.
2. Linda Goodman’s Relationship Signs: The World’s Most Respected Astrological Authority Reveals Her Secrets of Creating and Interpreting Your Personalized Relationship Charts – Linda Goodman
Linda Goodman is famous for her valuable contents that help many couples mend their relationships and heal their pain. I was impressed by her humor tones and creative writing styles which include the karmic or past life of each relationship.
This book reveals the secret language of romantic love, which interprets your love life under the astrology placements on your chart. For example, Mars is dominated by masculine energy while Venus could be more harmonious and sensual.
Besides that, other planets that are cloaked in hidden power such as Pluto or Saturn will also unintentionally cause your relationship to go into trouble.
“Linda Goodman’s Relation Signs” is different from “Linda Goodman’s Love Signs” because it delves into the serious relationships rather than flirting or dating stages.
In particular, the relationship before, during, and after marriage will be the main topic most described in this book. If you want to improve your relationship by using an astrological approach, do not miss out on this must-have book.
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3. Trust Your Timing: How to Use Your Astrological Birth Chart to Navigate Your Love Life and Find Your Authentic Self – Alice Bell
The book brings a completely new perspective on applying astrology to achieve a certain understanding of relationships. By using the author’s guidance from this book, we can understand the basic foundation of relationship astrology.
I recommend that you read slowly from the explanation of sun signs, moon signs, Venus signs, and Mars signs before moving on to more advanced information.
Although Alice Bell’s writing style is quite clear and easy to absorb, you should not read them lightly because it will hinder learning in-depth knowledge in the near future.
Actually, this book mainly focuses on intimate relationships rather than other connections, it significantly stays in the personal relationships positions such as the 5th house (Love, Dating, Children), the 7th house (Spouse, Partner), and the 8th house (Sex).
In “Trust Your Timing”, the author also gives a guideline for comparing two birth charts overlaid on top of each other – known as compatibility charts. It shows a magnetic resonance relationship based on common concerns in each person’s life such as family, friends, work, finances, and children.
4. Skymates – Steven Forrest
If you get stuck in your current relationship, this book could be a positive key for you to unlock open communication, and mutual understanding with each other.
“Skymates” is completely considered in the interaction and compatibility signs of couples when they are in a romantic relationship. It looks like a handbook for your intimate relationships that shows off details in planets movement and relationship’s house in astrology.
Moreover, this book clearly approaches strategy to analyze the synastry chart with different case studies of his readers, which can be an important resource for you to look up your partnership’s chart. He also wrote chapter II “Skymates II: The Composite Chart”, which you can find out here.
5. Sexual Astrology: A Sign-by-Sign Guide to Your Sensual Stars – Joanna Woolfolk
Joanna Woolfolk is so famous for her best-seller book “The Only Astrology Book You’ll Ever Need” with over 500,000 copies. Thus, in this book you can be surprised by her approach to romantic love, intimate relationships, sensual attraction and more than a sexual guidance for couples.
It not only shows the love pattern in astrology is described by analyzing planets movement and chart aspects, but it also provides a case study for your sexual matters.
The book is a combination of theory and practice that makes it easy for you to use as a handbook in your romantic relationship. In spite of being exposed to the vulnerable in relationships, the book can help you delve into the deep understanding of sexual obsession that caused the trauma in your love life.
Each piece of the horoscope becomes important when combined together, you can see the Scorpio Venus in the 8th house become sensitive and vulnerable, or Pisces Saturn in the 12th house can be more resilient after a heart broken.
6. Planets in Composite: Analyzing Human Relationships – Robert Hand
Don’t be surprised by the troves of theoretical and arcane principles when you first read Robert Hand’s books. With a humble and professional approach, he affirmed his position among astrologers around the world.
He plays a crucial role in restaining the reputation of ancient wisdom with highly accurate methods of his research. This book contains an explanation of composite chart reading which is applied to any personal relationship.
Moreover, I found just a little or none of the ambiguity with the composite chart reading, but it occurs with the general synastry reading technique. Deep interpretation and case study analysis helped me see the nature of the struggle deep within the relationship.
The composite chart deals with the trauma in our relationships that not everyone dares to face bravely. It’s the best choice for you if you want an erudite without nonsense approaching the celestial sky.
7. Relationships and Life Cycles: Astrological Patterns of Personal Experience – Stephen Arroyo
“Relationships and Life Cycles” is a written version of Stephen Arroyo’s astrology workshop. Despite being an expert, his writing style is informal, easy to approach, straightforward, and mainly focuses on the book’s objectives compared to the other synastry books.
Therefore, if you are familiar with his work, this book will be your resource on the astrology journey.
Generally, Stephen Arroyo’s books do not require you to have a strong background in astrology, but you need to practice step-by-step to discover the issues that the author mentioned.
Starting with the individual’s capacity in the relationships, the author describes the connections between positions in the birth chart and relationship compatibility. The latter of this book provides more information about astrology techniques to analyze the synastry chart, and the transit is also included in his contents.
8. Relationships and How to Survive Them – Liz Greene
If you are looking for a deeper understanding of relationship astrology with insightful and subtle contents, “Relationships and How to Survive Them” written by Liz Greene could be a line book for you.
This book is divided into two parts: the first one is the comprehensive understanding and method of composite charts, and the last one discusses the eternal triangle in relationships.
Besides that, the professional psychologist Robert Sternberg has also developed the triangular theory of love that is based on three different scales: intimacy, passion, and commitment.
The primer not only works on composite charts, but it also shows you the relationship patterns in traumatic contexts such as toxic relationships, or how your parents’ divorce affects your relationship. Due to her highly important research will be useful for all level readers.
Relationship Books – Healing Way For Your Relationship
1. Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex – John Gray
If you are passionate about the psychology of love, you have certainly heard about the book “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus” – one of the top best seller books in the New York Times.
He provides an amazing approach in the relationship through understanding each other’s desires, gestures, demands, and behaviors. This will be a great insight for you to strengthen and nurture long-term relationships.
On the other hand, this book is not only suitable for any couple beginning their courtship, it could give careful guidance for singles to prepare before getting into any relationships. However, in my opinion, this book does not delve too deep into theoretical definitions or complex concepts of psychology, it just only gives practical advice to understand your romantic relationships.
2. Models: Attract Women Through Honesty – Mark Manson, Austin Rising
“Models: Attract Women Through Honesty” is a recommended book for anyone who finds it difficult to understand women’s behaviors. The author arranges the content masterfully with a clear approach to each chapter, helping readers easy to follow up.
It’s the basic guidance to gradually attract a woman by your maturity and honesty rather than use tricks to seduce or flirt with her.
Moreover, Mark Manson also mentions three areas that a man could adequately focus: Honest Living, Honest Action, Honest Communication to be more successful in a romantic relationship.
This is not only solely a dating handbook for males, but it is also a starting point for those who want to improve themselves in any relationship. Certainly, this book has completed the task of conveying the positive messages to those seeking to improve their appeal to women.
3. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love – Amir Levine, Rachel S.F.Heller
This book was written by neuroscientist Amir Levine and psychologist Rachel S.F.Heller that reveal an attachment theory and its impact on our relationship. It becomes a basic fundamental for those best-selling books in the market today.
The core of attachment theory is what we need and behave in a close relationship in three distinct ways: anxious, avoidant and secure people. It also offers some insightful advice on how to navigate your relationship minutely based on your listener’s style.
Personally, this is one of my favorite relationship books due to its insightful information that could help me improve my relationship.
It opens up my knowledge about relationships by providing useful examples, checklists, and inventories to figure out my traumatic relationship’s circumstances. The author points out the reason why you make the same silly mistakes or cause the relationship to stagnate.
4. The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts – Gary Chapman
“The Five Love Languages” rated #1 as the best-selling book about relationships and marriage. This book is all what you need for a long-term and healthy relationship with the easy-to-read writing styles.
It does not force you to change your perspective, but you should keep a positive attitude to maintain your relationship despite any obstacles. You will understand the love ideal is not just verbal communication, but the gestures and body language also play a crucial role in your relationship.
Yes, this book is for EVERYONE both youngs, adults, males or females. Whether you lost your way or want to rekindle your love sparking, this book will all offer you valuable advice.
5. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert, Revised and Updated – John Gottman PhD, Nan Silver
The book presents marriage principles to sustain a healthy marriage and even an intimate relationship or just friendship. The first one is to wisely increase mutual understanding.
The second principle is to maintain the respectation and fondness. The third principle is to build trust through talking about the mundane stuff of life with your loved one. The fourth principle mentions letting your partner influence your love life.
The fifth principle encourages you to resolve conflicts as soon as possible in simple ways. The sixth principle is to help you to compromise and move from gridlock. The last one is to share the meaningful creation together.
The author also offers some practical examples and activities to interact with your partner to maintain and nurture your relationship.
